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Not usually. The court serves divorce papers by email with a postal notice as the standard method, and most respondents simply acknowledge online. Personal service, physically handing the papers to the respondent, becomes necessary when the respondent fails to respond within 14 days and the applicant needs to prove the papers reached them. When it is required, it must be carried out by a process server or court bailiff, never by the applicant.
The image of being dramatically handed divorce papers belongs mostly to television. Under the no fault divorce system, the default is far quieter: an email from the court, a letter in the post, and an online acknowledgement.
Personal service enters the picture for one reason: proof. If the respondent does not return the acknowledgement of service, the applicant cannot obtain the conditional order without satisfying the court that the respondent has received the application. The cleanest way to do that is personal service, evidenced by a statement from the person who carried it out. It is also the sensible route where a respondent is expected to be difficult, where previous contact details have failed, or where the case may later turn on exactly when the respondent knew about the proceedings.
A professional process server attends the respondent's home, workplace or another location where they can reliably be found, confirms their identity, hands over the sealed papers and explains what they are. The server records the encounter in detail and completes the statement of service the family court requires. If the respondent avoids the door, the server returns at varied times and builds a record of attempts; that record is precisely what supports an application for deemed or alternative service if handing over proves impossible.
Where personal service cannot be achieved, the court can permit service by another method, or deem service to have taken place, but judges grant these orders on evidence, not assertion. A documented history of professional attempts, address checks and, where needed, a trace to confirm the respondent's current whereabouts is what turns a stuck divorce into a moving one.
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